I recently got this comment.
Quoteit seems like many of your arguments against rule by state could apply to your family as well. you never chose your family, you were born into it. you followed your parents' rules out of some combination of fear and respect and probably because you saw benefits to doing so. can you withdraw consent from your family? can you do so without leaving behind the people who still want to be a part of the family?
I'm not sure how to answer this. I honestly don'tknow how it is different.
Murray Rothbard covers it in The Ethics of Liberty.
Stefan Molyneux has covered it a lot too. It is a tricky situation since your family is the one relationship in life that you don't get to choose so it needs to be handled properly.
He believes, and I agree, that since it's an unavoidably involuntary relationship, you owe it to your children to parent in a way that if they could choose, they would choose you.
You can read his stuff for more details but the bottom line is: Being born does not, under any circumstances, create obligations. Becoming a parent does because that requires a conscious decision on your part (even if the pregnancy was accidental, you voluntarily chose to keep the child)
Except the part where the state is a violent coercive outside party that sticks its head into your business and your family isn't.